My Adages My Thoughts
“You are possessed by the things that you possess” is a true statement, isn’t it? The things that you hold closely to you are the things that will tie you in the end. Let us be conscious of the things that we possess and we should also take a moment to analyze ourselves to determine if our possessions will enhance our inner selves or cause us unnecessary stress.
Have you ever considered that every situation in our lives requires a response? It’s not just situations, even conversations demand a response. Responses can be either internal or external.
Internal responses come in the form of thoughts and feelings, while external responses are our words and actions.
Before we react externally, it is advisable to cultivate positive thoughts internally. These positive thoughts will help maintain integrity and transparency in our conversations and behavior.
Do you like people talking over you?
This means that when one is talking to the other instead of listening they will take up another conversation before the person even finishes their part of
conversation.
Now the question is “Should we ignore such mannerism?” or “Should we address it then and there?” .Well, I would prefer to correct that behavior as this mannerism is a clear sign of ignoring behavior which if tolerated will be continued. Its not the time to think “Why we” but it’s high time to think “Why not we?”.
When people share their pain with you, even if you can’t relate to it never allow them to feel inferior.
Try to understand the pain, console them and if possible give guidance.
Always Remember.
Every pain is a pain. The only point is that some people find pain in the areas where you don’t.
Do you make an effort to meet people and interact with them?
Expanding your social circle will stimulate your mind, increase energy levels and opens up exciting new possibilities.
It is easy to remain in the same comfortable social circle, but it takes effort to incorporate new people.
New people
New perspectives
New ideas
Comparing peoples abilities with one another is inappropriate. Have you felt the same? Comparing the skills of people will only make you left behind. Our thoughts and abilities indeed make us different. Different from each other doesn’t mean that one is better than the other. Each of us is called to travel on our own in our own time.